Why Won't He Stay Out Of The Strip Club?...

Okay here we go again, I was having a discussion with a 38 year old man, who admits that he's obsessed with going to the strip clubs.
As a result of this obsession he’s afraid that he might lose his marriage.
When he told me the amount of time and money he was spending at the strip club, I was shocked and wanted to know WHY?! What the heck was he getting out of giving his money to someone who was going to take it and spend it on HER MAN!
Now don’t get me wrong, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with occasionally visiting a strip club. Its entertainment. For me its like gambling; something you might do for an occasional thrill. However, I do feel that there is something wrong if you spend the majority of your time and money there.
I think you would be better off gambling...at least you’re taking a chance on getting something back... In the strip club you’re guaranteed to get nothing but a hard di@k! And who wants to go home with that? READ MORE...

This man’s wife is someone I know but not very well. From what he says she’s a good girl who tries to do the right thing, but she gets extremely upset when he comes home on payday with NO MONEY, but he lies and tells her that he lost his paycheck gambling at the casino. This fool actually spends his whole paycheck at the strip club!

Now of course, I had to ask him, "What is more important to you, your wife and family, or your daily visits to the strip club?"
He claims that his wife is.

I ask if he's ever gone out with and/or had sex, or any type sexual contact with any of the dancers other than in the club and he said, "No, I don't actually want to get with them, its just something about being there that does it for me?"

To me this was strange...
So I want to hear your thoughts....

Ladies,
1.) Have you ever been in a relationship with/or known someone who was obsessed with strip clubs, porn or any other type obsession that threatened your relationship?
2.) What are your suggestions for someone in this position?

Men,
2.) Have you ever had/or know of anyone who has had an obsession with strip clubs, porn or any other obsession that has threatened a relationship.
3.) What are your suggestions for someone in this position?

As always, your honesty is much appreciated.