To Viagra or "Not" To Viagra!

Recently at one of our girl’s night out functions, a close friend broke down and revealed that her man was experiencing difficulties with "Erectile Dysfunction" and wanted to know what she should do about her man’s impotence. She states that no matter what she does he can’t maintain an erection.

This led to an in-depth conversation about the sexual performances of men.
Most women have encountered men with some type of sexual problem at some point.
A man’s age is inconsequential in determining whether or not a man will experience some form of an erectile dysfunction. I know this from firsthand experience because it was the cause of the demise of my first marriage.

Men have it harder than women do because they have to be able to perform. For a woman its different . . . we can be stressed, not feeling well, and all we have to do is grab the lubricant and its all good!
Men can’t fake it or force themselves to perform and there are many factors that contribute to impotence; stress, illness, and fatigue, are just a few of those factors.
Oftentimes, women are quick to blame themselves for her man’s shortcoming. She may think that maybe he is not attracted to her anymore, or maybe he’s having an affair. READ MORE...

Sometime women fail to realize that men are also experiencing strong emotions associate with ED. They too have feelings of inadequacy at not being able to satisfy his woman and may feel that because of this she might go out and find someone who can satisfy her sexual needs!

This was the belief of my first ex husband, in his case it was premature ejaculation, which caused him to become so suspicious that he became like a prison warden . . . if I left home for any reason he would follow me. His emotional state of mind caused him to become physically and verbally abusive. I eventually got tired of constantly trying to reassure him that no matter what the problem was I wasn’t going to cheat and I ultimately ended the marriage.
So understand that there are many emotions associated with ED.

Now what can be done about it!

Today women want a quick fix to the problem. They are quick to suggest to her partner that he go to a doctor and get a supply of blue pills. Twenty years ago during my first marriage Viagra didn’t exist but it is readily available today just by visiting your doctor.

Now in my friends case, she states that her man won’t admit that he has a problem and his pride refuses to allow him to consult with a doctor. She said that when she suggested Viagra he responded, "I’m 43 years-old and healthy, there is nothing wrong with me!"

Men, if you have a medical condition that prevents you from taking Viagra, then I do understand your unwillingness to try it. But understand that you are depriving your woman of pleasure which is bound to lead to problems during the relationship or marriage.

Just the use of a simple drug, which is safe, easy to use and effective could possibly save your marriage or relationship! (Just something to think about!)